"WORKING OF BOTH PARENTS LEADS TO BAD RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR CHILD??"

 Today when I had a discussion with my lecturer about a topic where single parent working is enough or both the parents working is important. In this context I believe that when both the parents work they can generate more income and provide best to their child. But, there also comes a question of who will be taking care of the child? According to our lecturers experience when both the parents work they don't get much time to spend with their children and this might also lead to lack of emotional bond with the parents even though the parents provide everything to their child, the time that the parents spend is more important. But, I have also seen parents who are working at the same time they have the best relationship with their children. I understand that a child needs at most attention of his/her parent specially while they grow but, is it compulsory for one of the parent to sacrifice his/her job? I believe that weather both the parents are working or a single parents its about the attention the child gets from his/her parents at least for few minutes or hours and also the way they take care through the virtual life which we are already living in.

 What are your opinions on this? Do you think it is compulsory that one of the parent must drop their career in order to take care of their children or its all about the work life management?   

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